Many of us have met a guy and think things are going amazing between the two of you. Little did you know that this amazing feeling will shortly come to a halt if you don’t figure out what your status with the guy really is. Here are some signs and actions to look for to figure out if you are his “main chick” or really just one of his “side chicks”, that he has on the back burner before he eventually choses who he wants.
1. He only want’s to come over to your house, or even his house at times so he can avoid being seen in public with you
2. He does not want to spend holidays with you
3. He only texts you after 11pm at night. If you try to message him back in the morning, he will not reply unless you are trying to arrange another time to come and “see ” him
4. Minimal social network contact. ( instead of replying back to your “fb post” or “tweet” he will text you so no one knows who he is dealing with or talking to
5.He likes to play this game of “cancelling ” on you at times when you have planned to hang out and usually tries to make an excuse for it or at times no excuse at all
6.You receive a lot of physical compliments “you are so hot” ” i love your body” but never anything sweet and meaningful
7. He always has his phone on him at all times and refuses to put it down when you are around him just incase you see one of his other side chicks messaging or calling him
8. You never get introduced to his family or friends or even sometimes he won’t tell you where he lives if he is always coming to you’re house to “chill”
9. He always says that he is busy when you want to meet so when you decide on a day it is only confirmed when he says it’s okay. By this I mean, if you suggest a day he will try and pick another one which is convenient to him
10. If you try to call him his phone goes to voicemail
11. He sometimes does not show up when he makes plans
12. He does not have any pictures with you on his social media sites
13. Your cell number is saved as someone else’s name on his phone
14. He only comes over to fuck
15, He does not want to make things official with you
Guy Decoder 