Signs that you’re a Side Chick

Many of us have met a guy and think things are going amazing between the two of you. Little did you know that this amazing feeling will shortly come to a halt if you don’t figure out what your status with the guy really is.  Here are some signs and actions to look for to figure out if you are his “main chick” or really just one of his “side chicks”, that he has on the back burner before he eventually choses who he wants.

1. He only want’s to come over to your house, or even his house at times so he can avoid being seen in public with you

2. He does not want to spend holidays with you

3. He only texts you after 11pm at night. If you try to message him back in the morning, he will not reply unless you are trying to arrange another time to come and “see ” him

4. Minimal social network contact. ( instead of replying back to your “fb post” or “tweet” he will text you so no one knows who he is dealing with or talking to

5.He likes to play this game of “cancelling ” on you at times when you have planned to hang out and usually tries to make an excuse for it or at times no excuse at all

6.You receive a lot of physical compliments “you are so hot” ” i love your body” but never anything sweet and meaningful

7. He always has his phone on him at all times and refuses to put it down when you are around him just incase you see one of his other side chicks messaging or calling him

8. You never get introduced to his family or friends or even sometimes he won’t tell you where he lives if he is always coming to you’re house to “chill”

9. He always says that he is busy when you want to meet so when you decide on a day it is only confirmed when he says it’s okay. By this I mean, if you suggest a day he will try and pick another one which is convenient to him

10. If you try to call him his phone goes to voicemail

11. He sometimes does not show up when he makes plans

12. He does not have any pictures with you on his social media sites

13. Your cell number is saved as someone else’s name on his phone

14. He only comes over to fuck

15, He does not want to make things official with you

How to Act on a First Date <3

This is the making or breaking point and your chances to actually start dating the guy, and hopefully be with him forever. First dates can be scary if you have never been on one, but here a few tips on what to do to win him over.

– Guys are all about the looks its in their nature. The best thing to do is dress in something that accentuates your features and brings out the sexy side of you.  I am not saying dress like a slut when you first met, but dress in something that he will find appealing, something that relates to the place you are going, and most importantly, something you feel comfortable in that states your personality

-select a venue that both you and your date will be willing to be able to talk. talking is key, yes a movie date is fine but you will never really get to know the guy this way. so pick a place that is not quit or a place that would make things awkward for the both of you.

-keep the conversations fun and natural its a date so don’t take it like its a business meeting. Have fun think of therandom funny things and just say it. Ask him questions and remember to listen as well it shows that you care.

– make sure you do not over do your makeup because he wont see you for who u really are

AFTER THE DATE

1. if he kisses you goodbye or says how you two should meet up again sometime soon, this is a WIN situation you got him!

2. if he doesn’t mention how the date was or doesn’t kiss you, then he was not that fond of you and it is very unlikely that he will meet up or continue further communication with you again.

remember always be yourself! 🙂