if u find that the first date went well and the guy told you that you two should hang out again then you are very lucky. The initial time i suggest would be within 1 week. Anything over a week will just give the impression that you are not that interested in the guy.
This is the making or breaking point and your chances to actually start dating the guy and hopefully be with him forever. First dates can be scary if you have never been on one but here a few tips on what to do to win him over.\
- guys are all about the looks its in there nature. the best thing to do is dress in something that accentuates your features and brings out the sexy side of you with adding decency. i am not saying dress like a slut when you first met, but dress in something that he will find appealing, something that relates to the place you are going, and most importantly, something you feel comfortable in that states your personality
-select a venue that both you and your date will be willing to be able to talk. talking is key, yes a movie date is fine but you will never really get to know the guy this way. so pick a place that is not quit or a place that would make things awkward for the both of you.
-keep the conversations fun and natural its a date so don’t take it like its a business have fun think of therandom funny things and just say it. ask him questions and remember to listen as well it shows that you care.
- make sure you do not over do your makeup because he wont see you for who u really are
AFTER THE DATE
1. if he kisses you goodbye or says how you two should meet up again sometime soon, this is a WIN situation you got him!
2. doesn’t mention how the date was or doesn’t kiss you he was not that fond of it.
remember always be yourself
these are just a few things that guys notice about a girl when he first meets her. Every guy is different but below are the common things that mainly all guys notice.
1.eyes (sparkling eyes)
2.smile (nice glowing smile)
3.boobs (nice rounds average size boobs preferably a C cup)
4.hair (guys love lushes locks of hair and it depends on guys some like straight some like curly but mainly curly since they find it sexier)
5.weight (every guy likes to have that dream girl with that nice victoria secret model’s fit body)
6.legs (nice tonned legs)
7.style (always classy never trashy)
8.butt (nice plump but)
9.height (should not be taller then the guy)
10. skin (nice clean skin)
11. the pitch and sound of your voice (higher pitched)
Why they dont text back?
1.not into you
3.he might think your needy
4.hes with someone else
5.he is playing games
*guys that say they dont want a gf now are really just lying when they say that to you its just a nicer way to say, i am not that into you because many guys love to have a significant other with them
What to do when a guy does not text back?
1. dont keep on constantly texting him just leave it he will txt back if he wants to your world should not evolve around him or else you will seem to be way too easy and guys like a hard to get girl (the chase)
2.if and when he does text, take your time to reply
3. if you asked to make plans and he doesnt reply back for a good 4 hours be like how you already went out with your girlies and maybe you can hang out next week since you didn’t reply back to me.
the excitement of texting a guy you like is amazing but its always tough to figure out how to start so here are some ways.
1.ask a question about himself to show that your interested in his life
2, act like you care about him by showing sympathy
3.ask an open ended questions
4. keep texts short and simple not long sentences because guys barley read everything unless they are your boyfriend lol
6.be original by making him laugh not by starting a message with a simple hey every time
7.show him that your smart and funny so be original and keep him interested
8.send him an occasional winky face
9.find a common interest and talk about it and remember stuff he is doing or likes so you can bring that back up in the conversation another time
10.make sure you end the conversation at the right timing so he will still want to be interested to talk to you again
- talk to him 3 times first spaced out tho not one day after another and if he likes u after 3 tries, he will message u back first
If you ever get bored and run out of things to ask a guy while talking to him, here a few things to ask to get to know him!
-whats your favorite color
-whats your favorite animal
-what music u into
-what kinds of girls you into (be cautious about this one because he might get the wrong vibe so make sure you know were u stand with him or are close friends and if he hints to any qualities that you have then its a good chance he might be into you so don’t ask this question too soon)
-favorite move/ action hero
-favorite clothing store
-favorite past time memory
-have any pets
-where do u want to travel
-whats your worst fear
-what are your hobbies
Remember the trick with many of these random questions lies in the answers. If a guy is into you, he may try to give you the answer he thinks you want to hear.Also remember that what is most revealing may not be the actual answer, but how he answers.
Maybe one day he’ll be back, but maybe he won’t. Either way, you should believe this is over for good, because it’ll mean you’ll find acceptance. Acceptance is what you need to move on
1. the best way I have found is to write on a piece of paper all he positives and all the negatives about your newly ex bf and u will realize how much negatives he really has and it make u thankful that you broke up with him
2. don’t try to suppress your feelings feel the way you want to feel
3. delete his number off ur phone
4. delete his pictures off your phone and social networking
5.remove anything that he got from you and take it away
6.start talking to other guys because you will only truly forget about him once you find another
7.the memories will stay but eventually they will fade away as time goes by
8.always surround yourself with things you love and people that support you
9.find a new hobby or anything that will fill in the void
10. just be happy and enjoy life
guy decoder 123
All these questions have an end result of your bf not liking the idea that you broke up with him and wants you back so its your call on what you do with him next but make the right choice but never go back with a cheater. Keep in mind that he prob will be stalking your social networking (fb or twitter or instagram) to see how your doing and even might try to communicate with you after the break up.
*Moved on Yet?
*Happy you broke up?
*found anyone new?
*you really think you will find better?
*i don’t think you really loved me did you?
*how can you move on so quickly?
guy decoder 123
Cheating is something that is morally wrong to do to another but sometimes it happens so its best to know the signs before it gets too late but these have to happen rapiditdly in order to have a higher chance of you bf cheating on you
1. He randomly out of the blue mentions a girl that you never met or know of and he constantly talks about her and hangs out with her
2. puts you in second place
3.you barly hear from him be it text or calling or hanging out or is always making excuses saying that he is busy and always going partying and never invites you to come with him
4.he is always too tired to stay out late when he was never before this may mean he is using his energy on someone else
5. if he ever mentions to you “what would you do if i cheated on u” this is a major sign that he is going to do it in the future to see what stuff he can get away with you
6.if he stops complimenting you, doesnt take your advice, sometime when your with him u can smell a perfume scent on him
7.change in sex life like you havnt had sex in a while it may mean he is getting it from someone else
9.shady behaviour (always on his phone and now has a screen lock when never before, lies, closes his computer when you walk in the room, doesnt give u his password when you ask, always questions you)
10. cares alot more about his body and he is not doing this change for you but for another girl
11.does not show u public affection
12. he seems more distant
13.he tells you he wants to see other people or wants to be a player- he totally has other people in his mind
14.he has cheated on others in the past
15.choice of eating habits suddenly change
16. starts to accuse u of cheating or have thoughts of u cheating even when u have not – means that he prob did and trying to put blame on u
WHAT IF HE WANTS TO REMAIN FRIENDS?
*the real answer is why on earth would you want to be friends with a cheater! they obvs did not respect you enough hence thats why they cheated so its best off that you cut all communication off with this guy and move on with your life it will benefit him and you. There are plenty of other guys that will not do stupidity such as this and he clearly wants to remain friends to either form a friends with benefits with you (dumbest thing ever don’t do this) OR if he fails in finding a new girl, he will want to come back to you
SO ANSWER IS: NO WAY IN HELL NO
Ever wondered when your guy that you know hugs you and you wonder what he’s trying to tell u? yes each hug means something here below the hugs will be decoded.
“comes up from behind and puts his around around your chest” = this means that the guy is in love with you. By covering your back, it means that he wants to shelter you and you two feel like you are one <3
“gently rubs your back while holding you”= this means that a guy cares for you but he does not necessarily want a relationship with you
“pats your back while hugging you= this means that he is not interest in you at all. This is a hug that most guy and girls friends give to each other when they are saying bye at the end of a meet up.
“wraps his hands tightly around his waist and pulls you closer to him” – this means that the guy wants y and if he touches his head with yours it is like he is trying to merge his thoughts to you. This usually means he is willing to get more emotional and intimate towards you.
*next time he hugs you rmr and look out for the signs*